Doing “enough”

We all have a different role to play in this change, and there is enough for all of us to do if we spread the love around.

NB

If you’re like me, you’ve spent the past few weeks doing what you can to fight racial injustice and keep the dialoged going.  

Maybe you’ve shared your story or someone else’s on social media.

Maybe you’re pointing out systemic racism at institutions you normally would never question.

Maybe you’ve watched a documentary or joined a book club to challenge your perspective.

Maybe you prayed for justice, peace and understanding in our broken world.

Maybe you were honest with your boss about how you’re feeling when you felt like saying you’re “fine.”

Maybe you’ve made a sign, marched and witnessed examples of police brutality up close.  

Maybe you sent a text to your friend to ask how they’re holding up.  

Maybe you’re noticing your privilege.

 Then, there’s the guilt.

Is it ok for me not to think about justice for a minute, hour, day?

Should I send one more email to city council?

Why haven’t I spoken out on these issues before?

Am I saying this the right way?

Was I “too much” in that conversation?

Did I donate enough?

If I haven’t gone to a protest, am I less dedicated to the cause?

Confession time: I’ve never been to a protest. I know I’m anxious and bad in crowds, yet I still carry the fear about being judged for not showing up in that way.

The same all-American systems that were founded on racism also founded the fear of never doing or being “enough.” Whether you’re black or an ally, just remember that this work is urgent, but we’re in this for the long haul together. We all have a different role to play in this change, and there is enough for all of us to do if we spread the love around.

I’m committed to using my words, work and channels to do my part to lift up black creators, thinkers, connectors and doers.

I’ve got some ideas on how to do it, but would love to hear yours too. Comment below with your thoughts on how you’d like to see black voices amplified or the ones you’re listening too, then stay tuned for more.

NB